Matchmaking,
Refined.
No swiping. No bios. Just a conversation with a voice-first AI matchmaker, grounded in 40 years of relationship science, who curates matches you'll actually want to meet.
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Have a live voice conversation with your AI matchmaker. No bio writing. No photo judging. Just talk about what you actually want.
Your matchmaker curates a limited number of high quality matches per week and details why you were matched.
After every date, you debrief with your matchmaker. Honest, constructive feedback makes match #2 better than match #1. You actually get better at dating.
The dating app you wished
existed years ago.
Your profile is written by your matchmaker, not you. Generated from real conversation — not a self-written bio you spent too much time agonizing over.
Compatibility first, photos second. Photos come after you've matched on compatibility and chemistry — reversing how every other dating app works.
Required post-date debriefs. Both people share honest feedback with the matchmaker. No other app gives you this. You actually grow as a dater.
Access weekly speed dating events from any location. All you need is a phone. Your matchmaker listens, learns, and pairs you in real time.
Earn points, redeem dates. Complete interviews, attend events, and refer friends to earn points redeemable toward curated date experiences.
Built on 40+ years of
relationship research.
Matching algorithms that predict compatibility from profiles and preferences before people ever meet. The research is clear: profile-based matching doesn't predict relationship outcomes.
— Finkel et al., Psychological Science in the Public Interest
Conversation. Real behavioral data. How someone talks about conflict, what they've learned from past relationships, and what they'd never compromise on — even for love.
— Gottman, Hazan & Shaver, attachment theory research
Kismet's matching algorithm draws from Gottman's conflict research, Hazan & Shaver's attachment theory, Schwartz's values framework, and Perel's work on desire and intimacy. Not vibes. Research.